How to heal a broken heart?

Ok… it is time for another article about dealing with matters of the heart. What I will write about is above all else a list for me. It is therefore my subjective list and is by no means exhaustive and rather a work in progress. Writing this down helps me to process some of the…

Musings on Love – XI

A couple of days ago, I saw the Netflix specials from Daniel Sloss who is a Scottish comedian. If I remember correctly those shows are called “Dark” and “Jigsaw”. But what does this have to do with love? In his second show, he speaks about the meaning of life and that he asked his dad…

Musings on Love – IX

Sometimes I see loneliness is the opposite of love. However, when I reflect about that I see that I am wrong. This feeling was the result of my need for closeness. However, I can also love someone when I am not together with that person. And you won’t stop loving someone only because he/she is…

Musings on Love – VIII

How open should you be when dating? After a long time during which I didn’t want to date, I came to the point when I felt okay with the thought again. My question now is how open should I be? I am a very open and transparent person also in dating and I think it…

Who are you doing it for?

Last year and still some days now, I ask myself the question who am I doing it for? As you might know, the last year was not the best year of my life and it was also the reason why I started writing this blog. I felt as if I don’t have any reason to…

What does self-love mean?

A few days ago, I logged into Facebook again. I don’t use it really and maybe every 3-4 weeks I just check it for a few minutes. That day it so happened that I saw a picture with a quote along the lines like “self-love is not candles and a hot bath, but a life…

5 Things to increase self-love

I often write about the importance of loving oneself. For some it might be easy, but for some it is a bit more difficult. From time to time, I also struggle with it, though there are a few things you can do to train or increase your self-love.

Thoughts about Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day, the day to cherish our loved significant other, a day that can be the cause of beautiful moments but also despair. That is why I want to dedicate this entry to those of you who are or feel alone. I can speak from my own experience that this day was not the most…

Musings on love – IV

Planning my next year and reflecting about the things I’d like to have more of in my life, I also thought about relationship and love.

The concept of the last hour

What do your evenings look like? And, have you ever thought about it? I want to share one thing I regularly do during my evenings, which I call the concept of the last hour.